What to do not to get the girl

From: dustin

Subject: help me

Hi am currently just became friends with this girl that is very beautiful on the outside and on the inside and she thinks i am very nice guy. But she first wants us to be friends and because she got out of a relationship about 2 months ago that was bad. I just want to be that mr. right for her. and if you can give me some tips on going in the right direction with this relationship. Also i need some dos and donts in starting a relationship. Because my previous relationship usually crashed and burned at the begining. So please help me!!!

Dustin--

Thanks for writing in. Whatever you do, please don't try to be 'that Mr Right' for her. That is a complete abdication of your personal power and choice. Rather, think about how *she* fits in your needs and desires when it comes to your relationships with women. Is she good enough for you? And is 'just friends' for an indefinite time something you're willing to settle for? I certainly hope not. I would recommend that you go get a bunch of dates with several other women, since it seems as if you're somewhat stuck on this one. Hanging with other women will make you a lot more effective with this one, too. Think abundance -- thousands and thousands of women out there who'd love to spend time with a nice guy like you.

All the best,

Dr Alex